Lost or Stolen iPhone: The First Ten Minutes

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Do these in order. First, Mark As Lost in Find My from any other device or from iCloud.com — it locks the phone, shows a contact message, and suspends payment cards, and it works even if the phone is currently offline. Second, call your carrier to suspend the SIM. Third, change your Apple Account password. Do not erase the device yet; erasing is a last step, not a first one.

Minute one to three: Mark As Lost

  1. Open Find My on another Apple device you own, or sign in at iCloud.com from any browser on any computer.
  2. Select the missing iPhone from the device list.
  3. Choose Mark As Lost and follow the prompts.
  4. Add a contact phone number and a short message — a genuine finder needs a way to reach you.
  5. Turn on notify when found so you are alerted the moment it reconnects.

Mark As Lost locks the device with your passcode, disables Apple Pay and payment cards, displays your message on the lock screen, and queues all of this even if the phone is offline right now — it applies the instant the phone next connects to any network. That last property is why this step comes first: it costs 90 seconds and works regardless of the phone's current state.

Minute three to six: the carrier and your accounts

Action
Call your mobile carrier and ask them to suspend the SIM and any eSIM on the account.
Why it helps
It stops call and data charges, and more importantly stops your number being used to receive SMS verification codes for your other accounts.
Verification
The carrier confirms the line is suspended; the number stops receiving calls.
Action
Change your Apple Account password from another device.
Why it helps
It invalidates sessions and blocks an attacker from acting on the account even if they somehow reach it.
Verification
You are prompted to sign in again on your other Apple devices.
Action
Change the passwords for email and banking, especially if you used SMS for two-factor.
Why it helps
Email is the reset path for everything else, so it is the account an attacker goes for first.
Verification
You have signed in with the new passwords and reviewed recent activity.
Action
Report it to the police and record the serial number and IMEI.
Why it helps
Many insurers require a crime reference number, and the identifiers are needed for any claim or recovery.
Verification
You have a crime reference number and the identifiers written down somewhere other than the missing phone.

Find the IMEI and serial from another device: they appear in Settings [your name] under the device list on any other Apple device, and on your Apple Account page on the web. If you still have the original box, they are printed on it.

When to erase, and why not sooner

Mark As Lost already prevents access to your data, because the phone is locked with your passcode and encrypted. Erasing is a separate, stronger step with a real cost: it wipes the device, and on current iOS an erased device does continue to appear in Find My with Activation Lock intact, but you lose the ability to display a contact message and to interact with it in the same way.

Erase when: you have accepted the phone is gone, an insurance claim requires it, or the device held something you cannot risk under any circumstances. Do not erase when: there is any realistic chance of recovery, or the phone is merely lost rather than stolen.

The scam that follows a theft

Within hours or days of marking a phone lost, many people receive a message or email claiming the device has been found and asking them to sign in to a page to see its location. It is phishing, aimed at the Apple Account password that would let a thief remove Activation Lock and make the stolen hardware sellable. Apple does not send location links by text. Check Find My directly instead, and never sign in from a link in a message.

Afterwards: the thing that decides how bad this was

Whether losing a phone is an inconvenience or a catastrophe is decided before it happens, by whether a recent backup exists and whether Stolen Device Protection was on. Both are ten-minute jobs you can only do while you still have the phone.

How it works

Find My works even when the phone is offline, which is the part most people do not realise. Apple devices broadcast a rotating, encrypted Bluetooth identifier that any nearby Apple device can detect and relay — anonymously, and without the relaying device or Apple learning the location. That is why a stolen phone in a pocket, with cellular data off, can still report a position through a stranger's iPhone walking past.

Mark As Lost is a queued command rather than a live action. Marking a device that is currently offline stores the instruction, which executes the instant the device reaches any network. This is exactly why it belongs first in the sequence: it takes ninety seconds and its effectiveness does not depend on the phone's current state, whereas every minute spent deliberating is a minute the command is not yet queued.

Activation Lock is what makes the hardware worth much less to a thief. The device's Find My status is tied to your Apple Account on Apple's servers, so even a fully erased iPhone demands the original account credentials before it can be set up again. Nothing done to the device itself removes that link — which is precisely why the follow-up attack is always a phishing attempt for the account password rather than a technical attack on the phone. The lock holds unless you hand over the key.

Worked example

A phone is taken from a bag on a train at 18:20. The owner notices at 18:34 and borrows a friend's phone.

18:35 — signs in at iCloud.com in the browser, opens Find My. The phone shows as offline, last seen at 18:22 near the station. Mark As Lost is applied with the friend's number as the contact, plus notify-when-found. The command queues.

18:39 — calls the carrier and suspends the SIM and eSIM. 18:44 — changes the Apple Account password from the friend's phone, which signs the stolen device out of active sessions. 18:52 — changes the email password, because SMS two-factor on that account is no longer trustworthy.

At 21:10 the notify-when-found alert fires: the phone briefly connected and reported a location three miles away. The owner does not go there; they give the location to the police with the crime reference number obtained that evening.

Two days later a text arrives saying the iPhone has been located, with a link to sign in. It is phishing, and it is ignored. The phone is never recovered, but the outcome is bounded: the insurance claim proceeds on the crime reference, a replacement is restored from the previous night's iCloud backup, and no account was compromised. The whole difference was made in the first fifteen minutes and by a backup taken before any of it happened.

Frequently asked questions

What is the first thing to do when an iPhone is stolen?

Open Find My from another device or iCloud.com and choose Mark As Lost, which locks the phone, displays a contact message, and suspends payment cards. It works even if the phone is offline, because the command executes as soon as it reconnects.

Can I find my iPhone if it is turned off?

Often yes. Recent iPhones broadcast a rotating encrypted Bluetooth signal that nearby Apple devices relay anonymously, so a location can still be reported when the phone is off or has no cellular signal.

Should I erase my stolen iPhone remotely?

Only once you have accepted it is gone or an insurance claim requires it. Mark As Lost already blocks access to your data because the phone is locked and encrypted, and erasing removes your ability to show a contact message.

Will Find My still work after a thief erases my iPhone?

The device stays tied to your Apple Account through Activation Lock, so it cannot be set up again without your credentials. That is why thieves send phishing messages asking you to sign in, rather than attacking the phone directly.

Should I call my carrier before or after using Find My?

Use Find My first, because Mark As Lost takes about ninety seconds and queues even for an offline phone. Call the carrier immediately afterwards to suspend the SIM and stop SMS codes reaching the device.